Do she didn't comfort you and just left you alone. And on top of that you already had many issues within 6 months? It doesn't sound like the best relationship.
Sorry but you are too little, too late. As you said, for her it was the last straw. People will only take so much, and so many empty promises. An ex once asked my mother how love could just so suddenly die. I loved her answer (I wasn't there at the time but she told me later). She said, “Love doesn't just suddenly die — but it can be slow-stomped to death.” That is what happened with you. Every time you gave her an empty promise you stomped on her love one more time. Eventually you stomped it to death.
Will she ever really trust you again? Likely not. Should she? Very hot to say — it's rare for people to truly change and stay that way.
How do you proceed? You keep your distance, do not apply one shred of pressure, and find other things to do in the meantime. If she comes around, great. If not, at least you have sat in the corner and sulked waiting for it to happen.
This is super suspicious. I wouldn’t recommend being with anyone who keeps your relationship a secret. Also keep in mind that there are manipulative people who do use people for their own benefit. In the US, there is no visa for people who are dating, only for fiancées. Check into the visa process in New Zealand.
Don't want to come across as super insecure as she is quite independent and our LDR is only 3 months fresh
Do she didn't comfort you and just left you alone. And on top of that you already had many issues within 6 months? It doesn't sound like the best relationship.
Sorry but you are too little, too late. As you said, for her it was the last straw. People will only take so much, and so many empty promises. An ex once asked my mother how love could just so suddenly die. I loved her answer (I wasn't there at the time but she told me later). She said, “Love doesn't just suddenly die — but it can be slow-stomped to death.” That is what happened with you. Every time you gave her an empty promise you stomped on her love one more time. Eventually you stomped it to death.
Will she ever really trust you again? Likely not. Should she? Very hot to say — it's rare for people to truly change and stay that way.
How do you proceed? You keep your distance, do not apply one shred of pressure, and find other things to do in the meantime. If she comes around, great. If not, at least you have sat in the corner and sulked waiting for it to happen.
This is super suspicious. I wouldn’t recommend being with anyone who keeps your relationship a secret. Also keep in mind that there are manipulative people who do use people for their own benefit. In the US, there is no visa for people who are dating, only for fiancées. Check into the visa process in New Zealand.
Lol another reason why I don't sleep very hot
Another lesson learned. In a legendary way.
Dude has been inducted into the Ghosting Hall of Fame.
relationships are never commands. they are compromises and conversations.
Unfortunately I think the baby would have been happiest to be born into a stable environment but you seem to be very intent on robbing them of that?
i will let it go , guess it was never going to work
Uh…we need more info than just “his nails are turning yellow what do?”
Then would that resident be able to call themselves a surgeon?
I would date someone whose idea of involvement with family was closer to my own.