That's because you are a sex toy to him. That is why he had interest in a naive teenager. Your inexperience made you easy to made you easy to groom you into what he wanted/wants you to be.
No, this is a terrible mess of a relationship, and you two staying together is a horrible example you’re setting for your child. Sign the divorce papers and move on. And stop taunting her by telling her your plans with other women.
It sounds like you made the best decision. You are both very young and the indecision and frequent arguments aren’t a great time. If you guys happen to meet up later in life when you’re on the same page, great. Otherwise, it sounds like you may be better off growing separately for a while. Don’t let the post-relationship sadness slow you down for long. Go out with friends, enjoy hobbies and have a good time.
Women do this because many men don't take the hint, and we don't know which ones will or won't, and it's safer for us to not take the chance.
This one isn't about you and your feelings.
You are toxic
I am inclined to think that you will regret this in the future. This will have a negative bearing on future relationships.
That's because you are a sex toy to him. That is why he had interest in a naive teenager. Your inexperience made you easy to made you easy to groom you into what he wanted/wants you to be.
Have you asked her?
Projection or therapy are the two choices.
Just tell him that your intent was to move in with your partner. Not be a maid or his mommy. Tell him to pull his head out of his ass or you are gone!
Divorce her dude. Get therapy or read self help books in order to cultivate self love.
She's emotionally abusing you.
No, this is a terrible mess of a relationship, and you two staying together is a horrible example you’re setting for your child. Sign the divorce papers and move on. And stop taunting her by telling her your plans with other women.
Also, it doesn't even matter that this is an ex. If this was a new woman or even a male friend this would be freaking weird.
His relationship with this person is beyond inappropriate when he is married. He is lighting you on fire to keep her warm
It sounds like you made the best decision. You are both very young and the indecision and frequent arguments aren’t a great time. If you guys happen to meet up later in life when you’re on the same page, great. Otherwise, it sounds like you may be better off growing separately for a while. Don’t let the post-relationship sadness slow you down for long. Go out with friends, enjoy hobbies and have a good time.
Yikes. Time to break it off if his interests still include chatting up teenagers.