No, it's better to not have that problem in the first place by not valuing a partner only for their sexual qualities.
Let's be clear here – his preferences are a view of his morals. A good person does not have this problem. He wouldn't have needed to lie if he valued and respected his wife to begin with.
This is like that guy who had the fetish where he wanted to hold a real gun to women's heads while they cried and he fucked them. That's a view to that guy's lack of basic human respect towards women. Healthy people do not have that type of fetish. Healthy people do not get worried if their wife will “stretch” while having the baby he wanted.
The fact that he's having this issue at all shows he's not a good person.
Yeah. We're usually very good at this—communication. I feel at ease to tell him practically everything, but this time around it wasn't the case. I will tell him, and especially by tomorrow.
One of my friends just had to change her gym schedule because a guy there was trying to pursue her. She told him she wasn’t interested the first time then he pushed again and explained that she’s in a serious relationship and he still wouldn’t accept the rejection. So she just had to switch things around so that she can have some peace at the gym.
What your fiancée did is normal and avoiding further harassment
It was the last one and it was a “fun conditioning” one and all we did was play ultimate frisbee when usually it would be more general serious stuff I guess
Almost guaranteed she has cheated again but won't tell him. Dude needs to ditch her .
Thank you. Been trying to come to terms with stepping away
alright I will. I will work on this matter. thank uu
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Exactly what I thought. The friend is projecting on OP.
She was the one who said the guy was 10/10.
No, it's better to not have that problem in the first place by not valuing a partner only for their sexual qualities.
Let's be clear here – his preferences are a view of his morals. A good person does not have this problem. He wouldn't have needed to lie if he valued and respected his wife to begin with.
This is like that guy who had the fetish where he wanted to hold a real gun to women's heads while they cried and he fucked them. That's a view to that guy's lack of basic human respect towards women. Healthy people do not have that type of fetish. Healthy people do not get worried if their wife will “stretch” while having the baby he wanted.
The fact that he's having this issue at all shows he's not a good person.
Yeah. We're usually very good at this—communication. I feel at ease to tell him practically everything, but this time around it wasn't the case. I will tell him, and especially by tomorrow.
Sounds like he did you a favor
One of my friends just had to change her gym schedule because a guy there was trying to pursue her. She told him she wasn’t interested the first time then he pushed again and explained that she’s in a serious relationship and he still wouldn’t accept the rejection. So she just had to switch things around so that she can have some peace at the gym.
What your fiancée did is normal and avoiding further harassment
Back off. She can post what she wants to on social media. You sound controlling and insecure.
It was the last one and it was a “fun conditioning” one and all we did was play ultimate frisbee when usually it would be more general serious stuff I guess
We’ve spent an awful amount of time together lately but I’m not sure if that’s going to affect anything.
I don't know if this means a lot or a little but too far either direction is going to affect your sex drive.
Women not getting enough non-sexual quality time together with their SO's and losing interest in sex is a common dynamic.