Girl, I don’t even need to read the entire thing…you don’t have to accept anything. Your bf is lying to your because he doesn’t want to own up to the consequences of his actions, and you deserve someone that respects you and takes responsibility for their behavior at the literal bare minimum.
The hardest thing to do is push back against the sunken-cost effect and leave that relationship behind. You don’t have to accept anything about your boyfriend being a POS.
U wife is best and awesome! Tell her that you love her
Honestly, your girlfriend’s boyfriend might be blocking her blessing of a husband.
If you don’t want to be with her, let her go so she can find true love. She doesn’t deserve someone to be with her out of pity.
So he is abusing you. Why are you feeling bad?
If OP said it was a health issue would be one thing but this is just her preference.
Tell him to bow out, get over it, or you'll bow out. It's that simple.
Girl, I don’t even need to read the entire thing…you don’t have to accept anything. Your bf is lying to your because he doesn’t want to own up to the consequences of his actions, and you deserve someone that respects you and takes responsibility for their behavior at the literal bare minimum.
The hardest thing to do is push back against the sunken-cost effect and leave that relationship behind. You don’t have to accept anything about your boyfriend being a POS.