I had a boyfriend with a similar issue. He's now happily married to someone else who says he's never smelt bad to them. It could be something to do with body chemistry?
Sounds like the mentality of someone who has been abused and knows it gets worse. That's sad. But you are definitely right that if you can't handle it you should go. Your mental health is also important and she is going to need a partner that can support her against him.
Yeah, I don’t agree with this either. Personally, I am against the idea of tracking your partner or them tracking you. But if I wasn’t, and my partners location changed to unknown, my first reaction would NOT be to develop a sour puss look on my face, then hop on Reddit suggesting he’s being suspicious and hiding something. I certainly would not play stupid games to try to win a stupid prize, by sending him screenshots then shutting mine off. Instead, I would use my words “Did you know that twice your phone went to location unknown?” Even then I probably would assume a glitch, gps issue, or a dead cell phone. The fact that she leaped straight to the up to no good, IMO speaks the loudest here. Unless he has a big cheating hx to explain this kind of gigantic leap to this conclusion, then she doesn’t seem like she is in a healthy space in her mind for a LDR relationship and should probably end things with someone she has no trust in.
Even if my opinion is not popular, I still have to say it. Everything she told you is also valid for her. You were honest from the beginning and she agreed with that. You don't have to feel bad about it. Considering that she doesn't keep her word, I don't see a good future for this relationship. She takes you into account only when it suits her and is willing to ignore your feelings when she has an interest. Regardless of the terms in which they remained after breaking up, he should be a thing of the past, this chapter should be closed. Otherwise, you have no way to advance in a new chapter in life. She still has feelings for him because otherwise she would have done the same thing as with the others. The best thing for you is to find a person compatible with you who respects you and who respects her own word.
Okay, I think I see what yall mean by this now.
This is the epitome of first world problems…
I had a boyfriend with a similar issue. He's now happily married to someone else who says he's never smelt bad to them. It could be something to do with body chemistry?
Ahh.. firetruck!!! My tablet is possessed… :/
Yes, OP, why worry about so little. Also, him staying so close with A after what A pulled off speaks a lot of him.
Sounds like the mentality of someone who has been abused and knows it gets worse. That's sad. But you are definitely right that if you can't handle it you should go. Your mental health is also important and she is going to need a partner that can support her against him.
It's up to you if you want to do it face to face or by text
Yeah, I don’t agree with this either. Personally, I am against the idea of tracking your partner or them tracking you. But if I wasn’t, and my partners location changed to unknown, my first reaction would NOT be to develop a sour puss look on my face, then hop on Reddit suggesting he’s being suspicious and hiding something. I certainly would not play stupid games to try to win a stupid prize, by sending him screenshots then shutting mine off. Instead, I would use my words “Did you know that twice your phone went to location unknown?” Even then I probably would assume a glitch, gps issue, or a dead cell phone. The fact that she leaped straight to the up to no good, IMO speaks the loudest here. Unless he has a big cheating hx to explain this kind of gigantic leap to this conclusion, then she doesn’t seem like she is in a healthy space in her mind for a LDR relationship and should probably end things with someone she has no trust in.
Yes she did
Why are you consciously trying to make a relationship with a narcissist work?
Good question ? found out recently he planned on seeing someone he “cut off” just a week ago so feeling pretty heart broken
Even if my opinion is not popular, I still have to say it. Everything she told you is also valid for her. You were honest from the beginning and she agreed with that. You don't have to feel bad about it. Considering that she doesn't keep her word, I don't see a good future for this relationship. She takes you into account only when it suits her and is willing to ignore your feelings when she has an interest. Regardless of the terms in which they remained after breaking up, he should be a thing of the past, this chapter should be closed. Otherwise, you have no way to advance in a new chapter in life. She still has feelings for him because otherwise she would have done the same thing as with the others. The best thing for you is to find a person compatible with you who respects you and who respects her own word.
The dude is a dud. Keep in mind if you stay with him, this is who your son will see as a male role model. Nuff said, yeah?
I'd make a suggestion but for the life of me I just can't get past the 25 pizza rolls.
Momma bear don’t like when you mess with the cubs
You. You’re criticizing her for having a child when she has ADHD. I’m also sure she knows it can be passed down
Good news! It can be managed and isn’t some automatic life ruiner