There was no indication in this story that the transwoman was upset about the gender assumption. She was simply correcting a factual error. The boyfriend is projecting an aggressive “don’t assume!!” attitude onto her.
If you’re not ready to at least discuss it in the near future after FIVE years, you never will be. 15 years together before getting married is ridiculous.
I get that you feel young, but she isn’t pressuring you, she’s just voicing her priorities and expectations. If yours don’t line up, do her a favour and end it now.
For the record, I got married at 23 (“young” I know). We knew, and we’re happily married 7 years later. It shouldn’t take over a decade to decide.
She cheated, you found out and you gave her zero consequences. So she knew you’re a doormat with no self respect, she’s comfortable cheating again with someone else and lying to you. It’s premeditated. She’s not going to stop. You either get used to your wife sleeping with other men or you take action.
What does it Mean?
What do you Want it to mean?
Your BF is a paedophile. Please breakup with him.
English is my third language, and it might sound off from time to time. I'm working on it tho.
Also, what's shrink speaking? No offense, just curious
There was no indication in this story that the transwoman was upset about the gender assumption. She was simply correcting a factual error. The boyfriend is projecting an aggressive “don’t assume!!” attitude onto her.
That checks out.
If you’re not ready to at least discuss it in the near future after FIVE years, you never will be. 15 years together before getting married is ridiculous.
I get that you feel young, but she isn’t pressuring you, she’s just voicing her priorities and expectations. If yours don’t line up, do her a favour and end it now.
For the record, I got married at 23 (“young” I know). We knew, and we’re happily married 7 years later. It shouldn’t take over a decade to decide.
She cheated, you found out and you gave her zero consequences. So she knew you’re a doormat with no self respect, she’s comfortable cheating again with someone else and lying to you. It’s premeditated. She’s not going to stop. You either get used to your wife sleeping with other men or you take action.
Do you think quality guys want this behaviour and attitude?
This is a relationship sub. You get relationship advice.
You want someone that agrees with you. End the relationship. Go find him because your BF is not.
u/JustAnotherGirl78 Thank you for your comments on this, im working on getting better and i'm fully invested in it.
Im insecure because their was no mention of dinner.
Found him on Grindr?