He used to be in a toxic relationship where his old partner also used blocking as a way to punish him. He says through me he now realizes that she was right and that he deserved to be blocked and locked out of the house back then even though he (like me) used to have panic attacks over it.
The thing about toxic relationships is you need to relearn what behaviors are toxic and what aren't. He's only saying he deserved it because it's not happening to him anymore. Would he be okay with it if you starting blocking him for no reason? He knows how you feel about being blocked but just doesn't care. With how childish and insensitive he is, why do you think it will be better when you're dating in person. Toxic behaviors tend to get worse when they're not being addressed and he dont think he's doing anything wrong. I would block him permanently.
Great, so you can now be sure you won't have any kids with your next girlfriend! Since obviously you'll be leaving your sexually assaulting, deceptive, manipulative cunt of a wife, right?
You should break up with them and give them a chance to be with someone who finds them attractive. I don't know if you need to tell them that's the reason though.
To make matters worse, it's not even like it's fiance's parents or my parents. It's the brothers gf's family, so loosely connected. I could try to drive separately. I don't see why this is important to my fiance. He's also doing it (in my opinion) out of obligation to his mother (who lives here half the year) to make her happy, and I'm being dragged along as a buffer.
This tight here. Bipolar disorder tends to show itself in early adulthood. Many sufferes go undiagnosed. She needs therapy and possibly medication. You on the other had don't need to be her caretaker. Just imagine if she got pregnant.
So you banged both the nude mom and the daughter? Legendary
He used to be in a toxic relationship where his old partner also used blocking as a way to punish him. He says through me he now realizes that she was right and that he deserved to be blocked and locked out of the house back then even though he (like me) used to have panic attacks over it.
The thing about toxic relationships is you need to relearn what behaviors are toxic and what aren't. He's only saying he deserved it because it's not happening to him anymore. Would he be okay with it if you starting blocking him for no reason? He knows how you feel about being blocked but just doesn't care. With how childish and insensitive he is, why do you think it will be better when you're dating in person. Toxic behaviors tend to get worse when they're not being addressed and he dont think he's doing anything wrong. I would block him permanently.
We call this Zombie Mode! But it’s great for saving money when your to exhausted to want anything.
Great, so you can now be sure you won't have any kids with your next girlfriend! Since obviously you'll be leaving your sexually assaulting, deceptive, manipulative cunt of a wife, right?
what does this mean then? Did she put herself in queue for various therapists or did she give up?
You’re not compatible sexually. After 4 years you have come to the realisation that
A. He refuses to get help B. Your satisfaction in the bedroom is not his primary objective C. He does t feel bad enough to want to fix it
Time to split. You’ve done enough time in solitary confinement
You should break up with them and give them a chance to be with someone who finds them attractive. I don't know if you need to tell them that's the reason though.
Not to be the “just break up” Redditor, but you’re young and you don’t need this shit in your life. Run, girl.
Hope it goes well!
To make matters worse, it's not even like it's fiance's parents or my parents. It's the brothers gf's family, so loosely connected. I could try to drive separately. I don't see why this is important to my fiance. He's also doing it (in my opinion) out of obligation to his mother (who lives here half the year) to make her happy, and I'm being dragged along as a buffer.
This tight here. Bipolar disorder tends to show itself in early adulthood. Many sufferes go undiagnosed. She needs therapy and possibly medication. You on the other had don't need to be her caretaker. Just imagine if she got pregnant.
He looked surprised but he smiled when he said it.