So the deal is that whenever you'll have a fallout, she will go flying to her ex-fuck? Yeah, sounds like a great way to have a healthy relationship. You are 23, together a year, cut your losses and move on.
OP risks traumatizing herself even further for the sake of *not to deepen someone else's problems*. She is a person, not a tool to fix someone. She should leave him and he must see a therapist.
We've been talking for a month or so (already exchanged IG). She asked me out first after a week or two, but I avoided it. Ngl our convos aren't that “fun”, I'd say it's just a casual convo, because I don't want to be too attached, but it keeps going.
As per today we haven't met in person, but I guess I might want to ask her out soon.
Beware of potential love-bombing! This is when they come crawling with with everything you wanted from them plus promises of changing but in reality it will last about two weeks if not less and then when they think they have you they will be back to their old ways. Also when they love-bomb you and it’s not working they will be nasty. Well done and good luck to a brighter future.
I believe it could also be the matter of reputation and social standards
Being afraid of that person portraying you as all the worst to other family members
Also social standards, one will put up with so much bullshit because they've always been told that family comes first and family is forever, almost like being brainwashed
Did her mother really die? Makes me feel like she is lying and ignoring you because she doesn't know how to tell you she's not interested anymore
I was t snooping. Last night he showed me video of a Christmas street they were at and I wanted to see more of it.
Thanks a lot! Do you have any advice on how to practically letting go?
So the deal is that whenever you'll have a fallout, she will go flying to her ex-fuck? Yeah, sounds like a great way to have a healthy relationship. You are 23, together a year, cut your losses and move on.
Have another chick blow you to completion in front of your ex-girlfriend. Then go fuck someone else. Then forget the first chick.
OP risks traumatizing herself even further for the sake of *not to deepen someone else's problems*. She is a person, not a tool to fix someone. She should leave him and he must see a therapist.
Also it’s a real website, sketchy true, because it’s all bots, but it’s a real website idiot men use
We've been talking for a month or so (already exchanged IG). She asked me out first after a week or two, but I avoided it. Ngl our convos aren't that “fun”, I'd say it's just a casual convo, because I don't want to be too attached, but it keeps going.
As per today we haven't met in person, but I guess I might want to ask her out soon.
I need an advice, so that this overall situation can be solved about her
No he is from Europe
Beware of potential love-bombing! This is when they come crawling with with everything you wanted from them plus promises of changing but in reality it will last about two weeks if not less and then when they think they have you they will be back to their old ways. Also when they love-bomb you and it’s not working they will be nasty. Well done and good luck to a brighter future.
I believe it could also be the matter of reputation and social standards
Being afraid of that person portraying you as all the worst to other family members
Also social standards, one will put up with so much bullshit because they've always been told that family comes first and family is forever, almost like being brainwashed
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