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Maybe you would feel better to confront him too, tell other invested parties and then step away for a while.
Was there any date on this note. Could be something from his past that he forgot it was there.
you could also talk with him asking if he ever had a strong crush on someone before and how he dealt with it. Just chatting back and forth he then could mention her name..i just had an idea pretend he said her name while he was sleeping and ask him who is this person.
There's only two things that can help a relationship, talking and therapy. If you can't give up on this person, ask her to go to couples therapy with you, to see if you could set up boundaries and expectations to be in a relationship again. If that fails cut contact completely
He thought being with an inexperienced 18 year old he could manipulate you easily and serve himself only. I applaud you standing your ground and don’t cave now. I mean honestly I would exit the relationship but staying I would make it clear you did not insult his “masculinity” you have “insulted” his sex skills because he completely disregards your needs while being selfish about his own. Let him know to stay in a relationship you need to be satisfied, sexually, as well.
Perhaps see a therapist if this leaves you crying all day.
Do you have any friends, family? Anywhere you can stay? She sounds abusive, both verbally and physically (making you sleep elsewhere etc)
You're already doing the “grey rock” technique, which is good.
Bullshit. Context matters.
I think you're uncomfortable because she's using the baby to ease her dysphoria, but she's also doing it in secret. I feel like you might have a slightly less adverse reaction if she discussed it with you beforehand, if she just wanted to experience “breastfeeding”?
Also, it could also simply make you uncomfortable because the baby is working nude to try and get milk – and the baby isn't getting anything.
I agree 100% with the boyfriend including the jail time but that’s because I’ve seen multiple people die purely because of cheating and those people who cheated should be in jail with the trauma they inflicted on an innocent person.
Plus OP kinda gives off the vibe that she might cheat on her boyfriend in the future.
He doesn’t get away with cheating because it was with a man.
You won’t leave him because you bought a house and you love him. That’s why you are naive. You want someone to tell you it will get better, he will change but he won’t and you are being a doormat.
Take that as aggressive, rude or both. You need to hear this as you are just not listening to this sub.
There are subs if you just want to vent and don’t want advice. But you are here and don’t want to listen.
It's called a survival instinct. She did what she thought was best in the moment to get out of the situation safely.
And she told you about it. The only thing you have to worry about is what the guy at the gym will try next when she doesn't call.
on the other hand helped cleared her credit debt
Tell me please you did not pay anything
He wants time without you, not with you.
Do with that information what you will.
He could gain it back but it is a great tool, and most people don't gain it all back. In this regard, it's much more effective than medical weight loss (such as Ozempic) which may only last as long as they take the drug.
He'll practice eating differently. He should find a provider who has a strong education component prior to and following the surgery.
There's a subreddit here if you want to learn more. r/BariatricSurgery
From what I'm hearing, it sounds like your issue is not necessarily rooted in the porn itself but in your insecurities about what he might be thinking when watching it, am I right?
Like, you watch straight porn and you're less conflicted about that because you knowexactly how you feel about the actors, the scenario, the premise…
You know that your feelings about the erotica you're watching don't take away from your attraction to him, but you're concerned that you don't have definitive proof of the same from him.
Am I still on the right path?
I would argue that the fact he's watching lesbian porn is not necessarily because he's looking at women to mentally replace you, but to remove himself from the fantasy altogether.
Let me explain my thinking.
So when we see a sexy scenario, usually most people would probably think: “Wow, how good would this feel if it was happening to me?”
Right?
But not all people think like that all the time because sometimes they don't want to think about themselves when they're trying to imagine something unbearably sexy because they don't see themselves as unbearably sexy.
Adding our own flabby/achy/greasy delete as appropriate bodies makes the whole thing unsexy for us, so we look for scenarios that are sexy but that couldn'tpossibly include us!
There is also the emotional component.
Some people don't feel comfortable fantasising about something that feels dishonest. The pornstar might be sexy as all hell, but they're an honest and loyal partner who doesn't want to picture themselves cheating!
Well… can't cheat if you're not even in the fantasy, can you?
Furthermore, some of us need some quite emotionally complex stuff to add flavour to our fantasies. Romance! Double-crosses! Enemies to Lovers! Dom-Sub dynamics!
You might feel your loyalty compromised if you start fantasising about such emotionally deep feelings with other people, so you just sort of… remove yourself from the picture.
You're still mentally picturing the fantasy and getting your motor running, but you feel comfortable and safe because you're not putting yourself through those feelings.
You know who the biggest consumers of romantic literature involving male-male pairings are?
Heterosexual women.
Think about that in the context of your boyfriend's appreciation of lesbian erotica, because the answer might be more complex than you initially thought.
i literally grew up around someone who was abusive. i was extremely abused as a child. i very much know the difference. he didn’t punch a wall to scare me or anything. he would literally never hurt me like that.
if my own mom who was abused and left him can see the difference, i think i can too.
he’s not abusive and i will defend that. im not thinking therapy will just magically change him into a Disney prince.