Sweetie , he moved on . I did the open marriage thing for a different reason. Want to know what I got out of it a ex husband that I am still completely in love with. And my first born daughter I had to put up for adoption.
Yeah I agree. We have spoken a lot and from what we can gather is that it comes from his own insecurity as this was genuinely the first random girl who has ever shown him attention. Thanks for the suggestion will be checking it out
If he's jealous because you post pics of yourself in a dress or a bikini, does that also mean he's jealous when you wear a dress or a bikini? That seems like it's going to be a problem sooner or later.
Breaks do not work. The only reason for a break is if one person has some serious issues to deal with. Think; alcoholism, drug addiction, mental health issues, or a need to work on themselves in some way.
Taking a break as a couple because of issues in the relationship does not work. These need to be worked out as a couple through communication and counselling.
Notice these issues come up after a vacation. I'm willing to bet yhat her frieare single or cheating. Whether she is, is irrelevant. See looks at that and thinks, “I'd like some of that freedom”. So, while it's not cheating, she is thinking about it. She is essentially asking for 2 months so that she can go and be with whoever she wants, with no guilt. I guarantee that if you put in a stipulation that you both had to remain loyal for the 2 months, she wouldn't go for it.
The choice is yours. Personally, I would go on a break. I would break up. That way, you can both do whatever you want, without any concern for the other. What I wouldn't do is then take her back.
This was mentioned somewhere else in the comments too. So I just want to clarify that I don't do this. I don't save up a bunch of complaints and then unload all at once. It's always over 1 single event or issue – it can just take time for me to realize I was upset.
Another example of how screwed this generation is lmao
Sweetie , he moved on . I did the open marriage thing for a different reason. Want to know what I got out of it a ex husband that I am still completely in love with. And my first born daughter I had to put up for adoption.
Yeah I agree. We have spoken a lot and from what we can gather is that it comes from his own insecurity as this was genuinely the first random girl who has ever shown him attention. Thanks for the suggestion will be checking it out
He doesn't live! in Iran by any chance, does he?
If he's jealous because you post pics of yourself in a dress or a bikini, does that also mean he's jealous when you wear a dress or a bikini? That seems like it's going to be a problem sooner or later.
Try dating in your age range.
No, you are fine. He is the ass.
Breaks do not work. The only reason for a break is if one person has some serious issues to deal with. Think; alcoholism, drug addiction, mental health issues, or a need to work on themselves in some way.
Taking a break as a couple because of issues in the relationship does not work. These need to be worked out as a couple through communication and counselling.
Notice these issues come up after a vacation. I'm willing to bet yhat her frieare single or cheating. Whether she is, is irrelevant. See looks at that and thinks, “I'd like some of that freedom”. So, while it's not cheating, she is thinking about it. She is essentially asking for 2 months so that she can go and be with whoever she wants, with no guilt. I guarantee that if you put in a stipulation that you both had to remain loyal for the 2 months, she wouldn't go for it.
The choice is yours. Personally, I would go on a break. I would break up. That way, you can both do whatever you want, without any concern for the other. What I wouldn't do is then take her back.
Good luck
This was mentioned somewhere else in the comments too. So I just want to clarify that I don't do this. I don't save up a bunch of complaints and then unload all at once. It's always over 1 single event or issue – it can just take time for me to realize I was upset.