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Yes.. I'm surprised your doctor didn't tell you about side effects
You are overreacting.
Just stop responding to her. She will frustrate herself into actually saying what she means instead of playing childish games.
You apparently intend to keep coming back to her as your home port. You obviously don't think she feels the same way about you. Why not?
Yes I agree with you about plan A and B, that's exactly how I feel. I trust her about saying the truth when she said she was in love with me, projecting herself and affirming she really moved on from him but she was probably lying to herself. Honestly I think I would have prefered if she cheated on me with him, at least she would have had a taste of reality instead of incasing herself in dreams. It would be easier for me to move one too.
I edited the post to add the argument, but other than that my mom has told me that dad doesn’t like that hubby doesn’t ask for help with household chores(dump runs, switching our dryer out) my brother ends up coming to help without us asking when he learns we need help
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Heartless for what? Not wanting a child?
Or a pet.
I know, but still a problem none the less
On-line your life as you want to. There's nothing wrong with what you're doing. Use some of your time to finish your college degree even if you only go part time. There's always a chance a relationship will end or for some other reason his paycheck won't be there.
Honestly if he ups and goes, he’s not serious about the relationship to begin with so might as well move on
This is exactly what I was going to say! He broke up with OP, tried to shoot his shot with someone else, and for some reason it didn’t work, so he came back to OP.
OP, you deserve better than to let some guy give you the yo-yo treatment. You deserve someone who really wants to be in a relationship with you, not someone who is keeping you like a placeholder until someone “better” (different, and shiny and new) comes around!
Lol. A whole year of inconsistency? My problem now is that my kids know him and his kids. I don’t really think it’s a good idea for them to become any more attached. Let the kids stay friends if an occasion arises, but otherwise, a year seems like too much for them. Yes, I could simply date him and keep the kids out. But… if we can’t get on the same page now, I’m not really sure that a year is worth my time. A year of canceling plans on our only child-free night together seems unhealthy.
Good idea, insult everyone who took the time to post.
I love this, thank you. It didn’t even come across my mind that she may be speculating
I think if he isnt ready after 6 years he never will be.
Yea, I'm all for women's day, but I don't expect people let alone my man to tell me, “Happys women's day,” lol
This is a red flag.
I’ve been in your shoes before, just keep at it. I also forgot to say that you should talk to your friends about how you’re feeling or see a therapist to help you navigate all the emotional confusion if you are so inclined. Even if you feel like you should just be able to deal with it, it’s ok to rely on others during this time.
It’s also ok to have bad workout days, what matters is that you went instead of sitting in your house being depressed. Even minor progress or effort is better than zero. I’m sure this is all stuff you’ve heard before, but it could also help to set up a goal while you’re trying to refocus. It could be increasing your sprint time or being able to do x amount of reps or just doing the big suck and going until failure.
Did he learn english from material/person with a different accent than you?
Depends on the vibe. I typically offer to pay but don’t push it, unless the date went poorly in which case I just say “two cheques please”.
If it’s a third or fourth date and I’ve been paying I’m definitely taking them up on the offer tho. End of the day don’t offer if you’re not sincere
“honey, my body needs a little recovery time before our next round.” And tell her about the discomfort you are experiencing.
Chicken Pho. Rice plates with pork. There is nothing challenging about these dishes. OP probably eats 3 things and no vegetables.
She said she doesn't want me in it and wants our relationship private. She prides herself as an influencer and plus she didn't introduce me to her friends that night while i did.
Tbh this doesn't feel right. If she's trying to be an influencer and wanting to pretend to be single, it's to implicitly flirt with some followers, or at least let some guys think they've got a chance with her. If she's trying to be an influencer, why doesn't she have separate accounts?
I'm very suspicious when someone who excessively uses social won't post or mention that they're in a relationship.
Also, look at her 'real-world' actions. She did not introduce you to her friends. I assume by that she did not tell them you were her boyfriend, is that correct? That's also very suspicious to me.
Do you know what bein in love does? Lol
I kinda love how OP is just “I will never PHYSICALLY cheat”. You know, that's a specific phrasing. Very specific. As if constant flirting and lying are not cheating, right? I love that mental gymnastics. “Well, technically I didn't cheat, I didn't put my penis into anyone else.”
Yep, just because of that we all know OP wants validation and is fully aware of what exactly he's doing.
Every time someone shitty, manipulative or abusive says “I don't know why I'm doing that”, it's clear they know. Oh, they know.
They do it because they just want to do it and they get a kick out of it but are trying to paint themselves victims.
Lol. A bit early for blatant misogyny, isn’t it?
What do I do
Accept it and move on. He broke up with you.
Your whole post sounds like your more annoyed that he broke up with you, rather than you with him. Are you a sore loser normally?
My partner that I was stupid enough to take back broke up with me while I was in hospital.
…his parents convinced him that he is so mentally broken he can’t get in a relationship. Now yes this may be true but they have been trying to break us up from day one. They have successfully done this now and I’m so exhausted.
This doesn't sound like a happy relationship at all. Maybe it's for the best that you've broken up.
He’s acted like a 14 year old and blocked me on everything so that we can’t talk. I didn’t get an explanation as to why he just did it and left no room for me to comprehend it.
Sometimes it's completely valid to end a relationship and then block the person. No one is owed an explanation for ending a relationship (at dating stage).
Sorry, but you're most likely not going to get an explanation from him other than that he wants to break up. It is painful, but you're best off also blocking him and then trying to move on.
Three years is not a long time to rebuilt self esteem and get over comments basically saying she's not good enough. Especially when you decide that it would be a good idea to tell her yet ANOTHER negative thing about her a year ago.
Maybe with more time, but I wouldn't hold my breath. Like I said, “the standard” tells us we aren't good enough for years already. And our partners are supposed to be there to lift us up. At this stage, she's probably sitting there wondering where the next hit will come.
I vote with everyone else that he see a doctor.
But as for the part where you’ve already told him that and he refuses to go, I think you should stop sexual interactions with him to show him how serious you are. “He doesn’t want to.” He’s either making himself sick or passing out on purpose for a kink which is very very unlikely, or he’s not doing it on purpose and it’s a major health red flag. Either way, he’s getting by on placating you with these bullshit responses and needs to understand how serious it is. Does he pass out and throw up when masturbating? Or during penetrative intercourse? If I were you I’d be afraid of him reaching this issue while by himself and not being able to force him to breathe or wake back up before vomiting. It could get much worse. He has to see a doctor
I am so glad!!!!!
Well you’re also only 23 so whatever exes you have doesn’t represent a very big chunk of time. So I guess that makes sense.
I totally agree with this. You are free to make choices in life that fit you and make you happy. That includes the place where you will on-line your life. And you deserve to have a loving, communicative partner with similar future goals.
People are always allowed to change their mind on decisions they once made, but when you’re in a relationship you need to talk it over with your partner and accept the consequences. Even if it means the relationship will end.
I think it’s incredibly unfair and dishonest of your ex that he didn’t tell you he changed his mind about living in/near the city the moment he realised he wants to spend his life living in his home town and this was a dealbreaker for him. Not communicating it with you means he strung you along for a while (maybe even years?) and took away your choice. That’s selfish behaviour and not okay.
As others have pointed out, best course of action here to to just say that you contacted him and you know everything about the affair but you’re willing to here her side of the story’s
Just let her word vomit after that.
our friendship before I became obsessed was genuinely an extraordinary experience, one that I wish I could recover.
The problem is that this was always what it was about: what you wanted. You had obsessive tendencies, they spiralled to a depth of toxicity and abuse that is honestly kind of staggering and despite being forward I feel you downplay [like you claim you didn't 'lie' but that feels like a really weak semantic argument to me]. And here you are, that same tingle of longing and again revolving around what you want despite knowing full well rationally that nothing good comes of this.
So yeah. Go back to therapy. That is what therapy is for. You are like an alcoholic that found a bottle in their pantry and instead of throwing it out has put it in their pocket and is now working themselves up over it. And be aware that not only will you probably hurt that old friend but you will also mangle your boyfriend if you go down that path again.
He is controlling, and tries to guilt trip you… BUT, he does have a point, about solo travelling being a single type of activity. Thing is maybe you should be single to be able to experience what you want to experience.
He us 26, so might look to properly settle down, you meawhile look forward to different things.
It definitely happens. I'm a travel arranger for a sales team and this can happen when there's a big conference in a city, especially for people coming along last minute which definitely happens too.
The love between a mother and son and the love between a couple are completely different . It's a really weird thing for him to say
Does definitely depend on situation. Wife is a senior doctor at an ICU and colleagues often tell me how resilient she is under stress and how she excels in such situations.
On the other hand, I keep food around to throw at her at home if she forgets to eat, simply for self defense. ?