I can't believe these people saying she was assaulted, dude she doesn't wanna find out, she went uostairs willingly with another dude while being drunk, the intention was very clear from the fucking beggining.
First of all, guys tend to get better at sex as they get older and gain more experience. So comparing your high school boyfriend to your college boyfriend isn't really accurate. It's highly likely that your first boyfriend has better skills at this point and you just don't know it.
As far as your hookups being bad, hookups are usually bad for women. In a hookup or one night stand scenario, guys are usually selfish and don't care about pleasing the woman at all. Most women never cum during hookups.
In adult relationships, there are skilled men who are happy to please you. Granted, even in relationships there are some selfish guys out there. But “she comes first” should be the standard in any relationship (the crappy ones who don't meet that standard are too selfish to be worth your time). But my last boyfriend always made sure I came first, and so does my current partner. Both of them are guys determined to make sure their partner cums multiple times before they do. So, yes, you can find another guy like that. They do exist. And as you age, you will find more men who like to please you. Just not during hookups. And when you do run into a selfish guy, dump him, and hold out for one of the good ones.
I agree! Solid advice to an already pretty good conversational opening regarding this topic. Lay it all out there, OP! But do start with the 2nd Paragraph or something near it.
I haven’t. Not sure if I’d be crossing a line there since it’s my girlfriends friends boyfriend. That certainly crossed a line for me though. I don’t really care for that. I’m more interested in why my gf didn’t do anything IF she knew it was happening
but she doesn’t want to give it to me because I won’t like it and I don’t appreciate her and stuff
She’s playing the victim and acting fucking ridiculous. You said you wanted to buy it for yourself. If she didn’t understand when she first ordered it, that’s fair. But she damn sure understood after the second conversation. It’s important to you to but it, and it’s not naked to understand. She shouldn’t be pouting because you can’t get excited about her potentially stepping on that.
says I should be grateful
Ok, as soon as she stops giving gifts that are more about her “credit” as the giver than your actual enjoyment of them.
So it came back in stock and they shipped it anyway? After it was already refunded?? I find it very hot to believe a store would un-refund and item once refunded. I’d hate to think any out of stock purchase I ever got a refund on could just be pulled out of my account at any time once back in stock, without my permission. But no matter…
Sounds like she’s making it out like she’s “stuck” with it now that it’s shipping, and that’s just bullshit. She can return it. She should have planned to do just that…quietly. If not cancelled the order immediately when notified it was back in stock and shipping…again, quietly. But she “doesn’t want to give it to you now”…what? Neither do you! That sounds like a setup to guilt you into taking/appreciating it from her anyway.
He treats you amazingly because you are confirming to his expectations of women. The second you stop doing that either because you want to or you can’t, you stop being considered a person worthy of respect and you become a target.
This means that when you choose to do something with your appearance or life that he doesn’t like or agree with, he will stop being nice or supportive and you’ll be getting the brunt of his sexism. You don’t really know a person until you see how they react to either rejection or the word “no”.
Yea you dont compromise on kids unless both parties are 100% on the same page. Plus its her body that will go through all these changes she is the one gonna end up carrying it for 9 months
What's the point of exploring the relationship any further than you have. A meet with/without sex couple of times a years seems pretty bleak. Considering the circumstances as you describe, you will likely gain anything from probing the crush's arrangements with his GF. Maybe it would be best for you enjoy the interlude and forget the detective work.
She was eating pizza because she had just gotten done playing hide the sausage.
Your wife is cheating on you.
Talk to a lawyer about what kind of post-nuptial agreement you can have, get her to sign it, then divorce her. She is going to cheat again and obviously thinks you’re too stupid or cowardly to see her lies.
I can't believe these people saying she was assaulted, dude she doesn't wanna find out, she went uostairs willingly with another dude while being drunk, the intention was very clear from the fucking beggining.
First of all, guys tend to get better at sex as they get older and gain more experience. So comparing your high school boyfriend to your college boyfriend isn't really accurate. It's highly likely that your first boyfriend has better skills at this point and you just don't know it.
As far as your hookups being bad, hookups are usually bad for women. In a hookup or one night stand scenario, guys are usually selfish and don't care about pleasing the woman at all. Most women never cum during hookups.
In adult relationships, there are skilled men who are happy to please you. Granted, even in relationships there are some selfish guys out there. But “she comes first” should be the standard in any relationship (the crappy ones who don't meet that standard are too selfish to be worth your time). But my last boyfriend always made sure I came first, and so does my current partner. Both of them are guys determined to make sure their partner cums multiple times before they do. So, yes, you can find another guy like that. They do exist. And as you age, you will find more men who like to please you. Just not during hookups. And when you do run into a selfish guy, dump him, and hold out for one of the good ones.
Y’all both weird lol you didn’t have to agree there first time or for the future. There are normal guys out here lol
Update we broke up tonight lol
i need this answered in order to determine why she did this
I agree! Solid advice to an already pretty good conversational opening regarding this topic. Lay it all out there, OP! But do start with the 2nd Paragraph or something near it.
I haven’t. Not sure if I’d be crossing a line there since it’s my girlfriends friends boyfriend. That certainly crossed a line for me though. I don’t really care for that. I’m more interested in why my gf didn’t do anything IF she knew it was happening
Dead lmaoooo bro it’s 2023 ? you on planet earth?
but she doesn’t want to give it to me because I won’t like it and I don’t appreciate her and stuff
She’s playing the victim and acting fucking ridiculous. You said you wanted to buy it for yourself. If she didn’t understand when she first ordered it, that’s fair. But she damn sure understood after the second conversation. It’s important to you to but it, and it’s not naked to understand. She shouldn’t be pouting because you can’t get excited about her potentially stepping on that.
says I should be grateful
Ok, as soon as she stops giving gifts that are more about her “credit” as the giver than your actual enjoyment of them.
So it came back in stock and they shipped it anyway? After it was already refunded?? I find it very hot to believe a store would un-refund and item once refunded. I’d hate to think any out of stock purchase I ever got a refund on could just be pulled out of my account at any time once back in stock, without my permission. But no matter…
Sounds like she’s making it out like she’s “stuck” with it now that it’s shipping, and that’s just bullshit. She can return it. She should have planned to do just that…quietly. If not cancelled the order immediately when notified it was back in stock and shipping…again, quietly. But she “doesn’t want to give it to you now”…what? Neither do you! That sounds like a setup to guilt you into taking/appreciating it from her anyway.
He treats you amazingly because you are confirming to his expectations of women. The second you stop doing that either because you want to or you can’t, you stop being considered a person worthy of respect and you become a target.
This means that when you choose to do something with your appearance or life that he doesn’t like or agree with, he will stop being nice or supportive and you’ll be getting the brunt of his sexism. You don’t really know a person until you see how they react to either rejection or the word “no”.
Yea you dont compromise on kids unless both parties are 100% on the same page. Plus its her body that will go through all these changes she is the one gonna end up carrying it for 9 months
Years ago pain was not a qualifying factor for SSI disability.
I don’t know if that has changed
Do you have no family or friends you can contact to loan you money to escape?
females
*women
Yeah I don't know. That's an insane thing to do.
You absolutely need to call off the wedding. Postpone it at the very least.
No to what?
You can’t convince her and it is not your job to fix it or her. She needs to do it. Don’t try to be a savior.
Thank you so much for all your wise words, I truly valued reading your replies and thinking about what you’ve said.
Ehhh, he's just got that post breakup/divorce energy going on. Most guys look/act their best a bit after.
He'll fuck this all up, too, promise you.
Name calling is verbal abuse. He's showing you how little he loves and respects you
My response doesnt change 🙂
What's the point of exploring the relationship any further than you have. A meet with/without sex couple of times a years seems pretty bleak. Considering the circumstances as you describe, you will likely gain anything from probing the crush's arrangements with his GF. Maybe it would be best for you enjoy the interlude and forget the detective work.
She was eating pizza because she had just gotten done playing hide the sausage.
Your wife is cheating on you.
Talk to a lawyer about what kind of post-nuptial agreement you can have, get her to sign it, then divorce her. She is going to cheat again and obviously thinks you’re too stupid or cowardly to see her lies.
Hahahaha same