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Keep your head down and plan, plan, plan. Make a strategy, quietly consult a few family attorneys, consider all your options for a new place and how you will adjust with a child, save and squirrel every penny over these holidays.
Put on the mask and get your ducks in a row behind it.
I’d be embarrassed to be w such a shitbag
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When I read the tittle my first thought was depression. The more I read the more I want to scream depression.
Get her help, keep pushing to get her help. She has gone through a lot (you have too but it's different). You said it in your second to last paragraph; “she's given up on life”.
Thanks for your kind words.
No she doesn’t.
He owes it to her to get help. He has failed to do so. His mental health is his responsibility.
This one is easy.
Time to stop seeing him.
Wow. Libel and slander.
If she says she's fine, why don't you believe her?
He’s also not modeling a healthy parent/child relationship if he is also refusing to talk to his son.
If you've spoken at length multiple times about this, he is very, very aware of you burning yourself out to keep everything together with no help. It's awful to think about but barring an executive dysfunction disorder, he probably just doesn't care.
Too many men will let their partners grind themselves into dust trying to keep up with 100% of the housework, administrative tasks, cooking, child and elder care because they just don't want to. I've lived with several men platonically and otherwise that knew perfectly well how to keep a clean house but magically forgot how to turn on a vacuum, wash a dish or scrub their ring of shit out of the toilet once I moved in. Some dudes just subconsciously think all that stuff is the job of whatever woman is convenient. They do it because it makes their lives easier, more relaxing and less stressful at the cost of an order of magnitude of more stress on your shoulders. A loving partner wouldn't want to burden you like that. The mental load plus slaving away alone for our families literally takes years off our lives.
You might have to start thinking about whether you still want to be trying to teach him that dirty socks go in the hamper and not a foot away on the floor for the next 50 years of your life.
!remindme 6 days
From one UK person to another OP, after reading your post history you need to get in therapy and learn what a healthy relationship actually is before you sabotage this relationship with your current BF. What he’s doing is what I do with my wife if I am still awake when she’s been out. He’s just being a good BF and I wouldn’t look any deeper into it. I get you’ve got crap relationship with your parents and you used to be in an abusive relationship with your ex, but if you don’t address your prior trauma you are 100% going to screw this relationship up. I wish you luck.
Oh for sure, I totally get that this sucks for her. I'm just saying it literally is not a betrayal and it's unfair for her or us to treat him as if it is. She's entitled to her feelings, she's entitled to leave the relationship, she's entitled to not be a stepmom or involved in this kid's life at all, but she's not entitled to unilaterally decide what's best for their children and move them across the country from him because she feels hurt and betrayed is all I'm saying
You are married to a man baby.
All he has to do is get himself to and from work. You are his new mommy.
I am taking the daughters side. Maybe think about her before your sister
The real problem here is that you “have no one to talk to”. You can never put all your social eggs in one basket precisely because most relationships don't last and you can't be so invested in a bad scene that you fear walking away. This guy's got his eyes on some kind of “influencer” status that by definition involves making himself attractive to other people. Trying to “restrict” someone from doing something they want to do is controlling. The trick is to find someone who already shares your attitudes so you never feel the need to boss them around. You and this guy aren't a good match.
Yea that’s a combo of fault but if your the driver and have people in the bed it’s your responsibility to make sure everyone is seated before pulling off.
I’m not perfect – but you’re literally trying to have a conversation about something g you literally admitted you weren’t reading.
Then backpeddled and said you skimmed.
THEN said you missed half a sentence.
Your replies are inconsistent and because I’m literally pointing out the gaps in your logic, you’re offended? People can have college degrees and still use lingo – it’s called Ebonics. Dawg, bro, sis, etc are all acceptable forms of acknowledgment regardless of college education.
You’re choosing to literally ignore the main point of my original comments, act dense, and become offended because it’s pointed out you’re not making sense.
I’m not here to make you feel all warm and fuzzy about your exhibitions of your thought process. It didn’t make sense and you failed to clarify. I already said goodnight – for the third time now. We’re both snarky, im here because I have nothing to do – but accept where you went wrong too bro ? your feelings are not my responsibility.