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  1. You have three big things going on here and neither of them bode well for this relationship. One is his desire to open up the relationship even though you have expressed you do not want this. This means you’re incompatible. Save yourself a ton of drama and hurt and do not agree to open up the relationship just to please him or just to try. Second is that you’re saying you will leave him if you meet someone who is offering what you’ve been looking for, implying that your boyfriend is not meeting your needs. This is not a healthy way to be in a relationship. Obviously no one is going to meet all of your needs perfectly but if there are bigger issues the first step in a committed relationship imo should be therapy. If you’re jumping straight to leaving him if you need someone better, then just leave him now and don’t needlessly string both of you along. Third is the lack of respect and trust he is showing by going through your phone and your diary. Big red flags. All in all this whole thing sounds pretty toxic on both sides and neither of you sound happy at all in this relationship. Get couples therapy to work through all this or just break up.

  2. Yes- as parents you need to prioritize your children. However, she's not wrong to to be actively making an effort to put you first. It's true that one day, you two will be alone together when your kids move out. It's a very common story for two parents to spend 20+ years focussed on the children, that by the time their children leave home they realize that they've grown apart and have nothing between them anymore.

    It's like that whole airplane safety scenario. Put your own oxygen mask on before you help others. She clearly needs/wants to maintain a close relationship with you to be able to serve her family better.

    Your whole post reads as a very big misunderstanding between you two.

  3. Cheating is cheating, when I was married I would have to leave town for work meetings about three times a year. Open bar hotel rooms and a big party every time. I had several chances to cheat and a few times saying no didn't even deescalate the situation. But regardless of the level of drunk I was or how persistent the girl was I never did anything remotely unfaithful. People love to make excuses but to me there is no excuse or justification for cheating. In my experience with my ex gf and ex wife once a cheater always a cheater

  4. Red flag and you’re ignoring it. He would have a problem hooking up with a teenager now. Predators don’t stop being predators they just hide and blend in. You don’t know the man you are marrying after all. You might want to pump the brakes on those wedding plans.

  5. Maybe some non-verbal cues would make him feel a bit more comfortable, like wearing roller derby/contact sports themed shirts? I'm sure you already have some bruise healing tricks up your sleeve but in case you don't, arnica cream and Hirudoid cream can help bruises fade a lot faster.

    Best of luck, and I hope you keep enjoying your sports!

  6. Seems like he is anxiously attached experiencing extremes of emotions. Sounds like you are avoidant, which exacerbates the anxiety from him.

    Does not sound like a good dynamic. The anxiously attached partner is not automatically abusive and the avoidant stonewalling partner that quietly retreats is not always “innocent”. It is a bad dynamic where both are contributing.

    If you want to be together, work on your problems, through therapy. If not, break up. Your third option is to keep doing the same thing.

  7. She is a selfish person. She only loves herself, and is with whomever suits her interests at the moment.

    Stop contacting her. Block her, and accept it wasn't your fault, and some people out there, are just awful. Just remember to be more careful with future love interests, you may have issues with judging people's characters. Well with judging pretty much anything, considering how you stayed with her, while she was cheating.

  8. I can absolutely answer this for you. He thinks you demeaned yourself by being with “ugly” men and he doesn’t want his gf to have done that.

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