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  1. From my experience, it's vital he tries to educate himself about autism and is eager to learn from you as well.

    So he can do some research, and you can explain to him your difficulties to understand his tone in certain situations. Ask him to communicate clearly. And if a situation is unclear to you, ask him right away.

    Communication is vital in any relationship, and even more in a ND/NT relationship. And it shouldn't be all on you. He has to work on his communication to meet your needs.

    If this relationship doesn't work out (as a worst case scenario), don't let it bring you down. Sometimes relationships aren't working for tons of reasons. But there are other people and relationships that might be different.

    (Experience: Happily married to a man who found out about being on the spectrum a few years ago)

  2. It would bother me that she seemed to be amused by the distress of the child. If I try to interact with a small child and they clearly are uncomfortable, I would stop and let them be. To not only persist but to find the distress amusing is something that I think you can legitimately question.

    It's maybe not enough to end a relationship over without at least some examination and/or discussion. Maybe she just doesn't have much experience with children, or maybe she's a sociopath. There's a lot of ground there to explore. But having a child with someone who would upset the child just for fun is not something I would sign up for.

  3. You let her know you were uncomfortable with it, she continues to push it despite this. You need to do these things at your own pace and not allow her to pressure you. If she continues to pressure you, then you may need to take a step back as it's clear she is not respecting your boundaries and trying to manipulate you and put you in a situation you have been very clear about.

    You say you're in a LDR so do you not see each other often? Will this meeting be the only opportunity for months afterwards which is why she is pushing it?

  4. Can’t compare your experience – having two kids is often the arbitrary point where doctors will “allow” grown ass adults to finally make a decision about their own bodies and future.

  5. It sounds like this is primarily the only relationship you’ve ever known and although it may be scary, OP you should know that this is not how someone who loves and respects you would treat you.

  6. It hopefully isn't her intent, but she is creating a paper trail that could be used as evidence of a history of abuse. If at some point in the future she wanted to blackmail you or otherwise hurt you, she has evidence to bring a case against you (it would be weak in court, but enough to trigger an investigation). If you stay with her, you have to get her to stop. If she doesn't stop, run

  7. Age gap isn't strange at all and definitely doesn't explain the relationship dynamic you just described.

  8. OP is 20… I guess since my grandparents met in high-school and were married 78 years until their deaths, that means they died still being teenagers… I wish I could have told them before they died of old age as teenagers

  9. I don’t know how you do that, TBH. Even if you wholly convince him of the truth of that, a hears worth of sexual rejection takes a huge mental toll

  10. Could also be that he's nervous and thinks the same about you. If you're sure you want to date him, ask him.

  11. This is exactly what I felt as well. There’s so much that OP doesn’t know. I would say that if the hookup happened more recently, then it would make more sense to tell the ex’s new partner. But this happened 18 months ago and just because they got engaged on their third anniversary doesn’t mean they didn’t have a break at some point.

  12. You make good valid points. And I'm happy that this is your reaction.

    I'm not a psycologist. But I'm guessing that your guy is dealing with complicated feelings between being socialized to desire sex as a man, and still being self concious about his body. The result is defensiveness.

    Your best course of action is be accepting of his vulnerability and demonstrate that he can trust you. When you have trust, deeper intimacy will be possible.

  13. Can you, tell dad if you agree to marry her, you want your money in an account only you can touch, marry her, never consummate the marriage and file for an annulment?

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