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You go on a trip and get away from that it will never work I lived it
Bruh, I would not give one single fuck about any of this. WTF is wrong with you? Get rid of her so I can find her lol.
Yeah I figured it would be a kids argument. I don't see why he gets to go out and have fun while you have to play pretend. I hope you've already informed your friends and family at least
Get out of this relationship now!! He cheated on your 100%
Exactly. Love all of me or off you fucking fuck, to quote Daniel Sloss.
Just a few prerequisite classes atm (writing, indigenous studies and anthropology) I’m mainly going to school for microbiology though!
Do you seriously think a septum piercing is going to dissuade men from being with a woman? I can’t tell if you’re over or underestimating men but it’s not accurate at all.
Lol no different he just loves me as I am and doesn't care about makeup. He can't keep his hands off me no matter if I'm dressed as a homeless person or dressed up. He notices when I'm dressed up but makeup isn't on his radar at all. I certainly don't dress or wear makeup for him. I can tell you without a doubt that me dressed up with makeup vs me in a comfy shirt and pjs shorts with messy hair and no make up. My husband finds me more attractive as I am than dressed up with make up.
Where are your parents?!
Shape sure – but a huge weight gain isn’t permanent unless she stops taking care of herself.
The Olympic medal for mental gymnastics goes to you ?
I’m not calling it rape , I just don’t want others to call it that because I was drunk. I had sex and now I need to deal with the consequences.
He obviously finds you attractive. I'm not 'conventionally' attractive either but I accept that if someone wants to have sex with me regularly they are probably ok with my face.
I see a lot of answers here that seem to have not seen the edit. If this was as a response to you thinking he was gay, then the issue is that you are immature and toxic.
Sounds legit
Check out justnoSO sub. He is putting your physical health at risk and it’s not okay
If there’s sexual tension then why aren’t u puttin the moves on eg when you’re both drunk at 2am on NYE? Sounds like u don’t know how to physically escalate
I think it just shows how shitty this particular friend is. I don’t see how he doesn’t see it. I just think he’s using it as an excuse to get away from us.
First of all, your girlfriend does NOT owe you an apology for HAVING FEELINGS. Feelings are not a sign that she was ungrateful or rude, they were FEELINGS, and as a boyfriend your only job was listen COMPASSIONATELY and let her calm down. I would recommend apologizing to her asap for getting angry just because she was upset: She did not disrespect your time, and the fact that you had very clear expectations about HOW she was going to react to your gesture and how you're still focused on your disappointment, instead of IDK FIGURING OUT WHY SHE WAS CRYING, is not a great sign. It sounds like she had a really rough day with lots of emotions, and the fact that you're taking that personally is a huge red flag.
The fact that you don't seem to comprehend why, when several times in your own story you say she listed reasons, is another HUGE blind spot. You're not HEARING her or responding to her emotions. I think the best bet is to get into couples therapy immediately, you are making way too much about you and your comfort and you struggle to even really tune into your girlfriend. You need to learn how to get out of your bubble and ASAP. Honestly, reading between the lines, it sounds like your reaction could have been pretty traumatizing for her, getting angry because she's having trouble articulating her feelings while she's crying????? YIKES. A professional couples counselor will help you attenuate your feelings and her perspective and it sounds like it is needed for you to engage in this relationship as a healthy partner. Good luck.
Nope. Don’t second guess yourself. He is playing games and you perfectly refused to play them. Cut him off. You don’t need someone like this in your life. You nailed it.
don’t want to break up or anything, but I CANNOT go back to living like I was in my hometown. I won’t survive it.
Please listen to yourself and be kind to it. Your mental health is most important.
What strikes me is that your BF doesn't sound that stressed at the idea of not having you. He makes a decision he cannot explain fully but is adamant on following it.
1 hour is not that bad tho.
You could try something like: every Friday/Sat/Sun someone moves to someone elses place.
I am 23, my boyfriend is 22 and if he did or acted like this at ALL, I would dump him. This is appalling behavior! Stop trying to “fix” him, OP. It’s not worth it. If he isn’t a decent man to begin with, why do you need to school him on common decency and empathy? He’s 35 years old. Your average person doesn’t act like this. Find someone else.
>In my opinion I should not be forced to do anything I don't like or don't want to do. Just because I'm dating or married to someone does not mean I have to set myself aside to appease them. I told her that a relationship to me should not be limiting and should not infringe on my happiness and that we are each responsible for our own happiness.
Good luck maintaining any relationship with this attitude. Of course loving relationships mean setting your own selfishness aside when it's important to your partner, because you love them.
Tell him being unsecured is the biggest turn off. Doesn’t make him any bit attractive if he is controlling and stalking
Yeah, pass her up. If she ain't that excited about you, she ain't worth the effort.
Thank you for the thoughtfulness on the subject
Sounds like your boyfriend is a perpetual victim. Will he throw a tantrum if you got a raise and started earning a whole lot more than him? Will he support you if you started making much less or will he still complain about that?
Partners are supposed to support you not make you feel guilty about the first bit of luck you've experienced in years. Figure out how you are splitting finances, and stop letting him guilt you into paying more if that's not what you've agreed to.
Make sure you have your own savings (and a FU fund).
Yeap he was never gonna tell me. He said before the end of last year he would have but I don't believe it.. he never wanted me to know for what reason I'll never know.
Lmao he thinks he's more deserving than you because he's a man. What a chump.
Again, why are you with this fella still? Cut your loses and move on
Your relationship has reached it’s natural end. It is not now, nor has it ever been something you have or haven’t done. Believe the things he’s said to you, because his behavior makes it seem like he’s been ready to end it for awhile but it is too much of a coward to say the words. So instead he’s just quietly stopped being your partner. This is admittedly a strange time to do so with you being the sole financial provider in a living situation that you and he share, but you’ve done your best to address his needs. Do not let him mistreat you because he is suffering. It is very hot to leave relationships, especially when you online together. But he has already left the relationship, he just hasn’t left the living space. So you take this time to gather yourself and prepare to do what must come next. Come up with a plan to on-line separately and end this relationship. Good luck!
LETTING?
Dude, fuck you. She doesn't owe you control over her nail polish habits. You're a control freak and she deserves better.
Ah well at least this is fake, well I hope to the gods it is anyway (idk I'm an Atheists, but if any of em are real pls)
Like missing ur sons birthday dinner so you can hook up with his friend.. like the actual fuck.
I'd take having an abusive parent than you as a mother any day. If this is real I hope he sees this and realises he doesn't need closure from you or anything else from you as you will bring him nothing but harm.
Do what you feel you need to do. You have to do what's best for your kids. What if he got high and neglected the children and they got hurt ? What if he drops a pill and the kids find it ? What if he gets arrested for doing something stupid and you have CPS come ? Or worse ? I hate what if-isms but with addicts/users, it's completely plausable any of these things can happen.
If you think his parents will help, then reach out to them. Your BF needs help, but unless he wants it, things will never change for the better.
Do you have any support systems ? Friends, family, anyone that you can go to for help ? Do you get along with his parents ?
It’s his kink but he should talk to u about it 1st
Thank you. I'll give it a shot and see how it goes. Fingers crossed
you sound like a guy who can’t take “no” for an answer
Girl, listen. Lots of people are fat. Lots of people who are in relationships are fat. Lots of people who are in relationships with skinny/fit people are fat. Despite what social norms and the media tell you, people come in all shapes and sizes, and the size difference between you and your bf is both common and completely normal.
There’s nothing wrong with you. You are doing enough, and you are perfect the way you are. Why would you stay in a relationship with a person who only cares about being fit and skinny? Why would you stay in a relationship with a person who’s embarrassed to be with you for a dumb reason like that?
Your boyfriend is a shallow douchebag. Looks are cheap, and he’s drunk off of the attention he’s getting from being fit and conventionally attractive. Don’t settle for someone who lives off of attention like that. Dump his vapid ass and find someone who you truly connect with, and who loves you for all of the right reasons.
His sister in law and brother came to visit me across the country about two months after I moved. She had mentioned when we were alone that OG had came to their house and said he was so proud of me and everything I had accomplished in life and if anyone deserved to have a great life and experience all the joys it was me (I’ve had a crappy traumatizing lchildhood/ early adult life but I won’t get into all that— OG knows everything)
— about two years ago someone with a weird instagram username started following me and liking everything I posted, and I couldnt figure out who it was. I finally asked OG’s sister in law because it looked like a familiar landscape in the profile, she was like yeah the OG lol.
So he constantly likes everything I post on instagram and will randomly comment. But only on stuff where my current boyfriend is not pictured.
He mentioned that if I ever invited him to come see me across the country he would?
About two weeks ago he started messaging me on instagram, he’ll send me funny reels and we’ll banter back and forth. Well last week he sent me some weirdly sexual reels, and then one that said I love you at the end. I didn’t react to any of them and just kind of ignored it. As I’m happy with my current relationship. As these last two weeks have gone on, he’s been more and more persistent about talking to me and sending me things.
On a side note we have a “family group chat” on instagram and he won’t say a word or react in there but will message me separately.
It’s all starting to bring back old feelings. And I’ve noticed he will only talk to me when he is at work (works nights) and if his girlfriend isn’t around. If I respond during the day I won’t get a response until the middle of the night.
I’ve been struggling lately because he’s literally everything I’ve ever wanted. But he won’t man up and admit anything. He makes me feel like I am crazy for wanting him. But my thought process is if someone has poured their heart out to you twice, and you aren’t interested why does he keep talking to me and sending me inappropriate messages & videos?
Again, I love him, he’s absolutely someone who will always have my heart. And I can’t cut him out because of our family situation. But am I crazy? Am I reading too much into everything?
What does this mean, is he playing me, is he really not interested? I just can’t believe that 10 years in and he’s still fucking with my head if he doesn’t actually like/love me.
This is just the short overview, way too much in ten years to go into details on or even recall at this point. But I guess my overall question— what the heck should I do, do I say anything or just let it fizzle out and focus on my current relationship and try to put these feelings back to rest?
He's a loser and a user and you're being used.
Is his concern for his appearance anything normal for him? If my boyfriend took the initiative to even just groom his eyebrows (I’d be thankful) but suspicious. But some guys are more on top of their appearance…is this at all the case?
I don’t feel like there’s any justification to be staying at the colleagues family’s house as a married man, though.
Well ok, do everything but the divorce then
I agree with the sentiment that it's not just about you and her. It's about all the people you talk to. What if one of them expresses something to you in confidence, and then she just does the Kramer, Seinfeld thing, into the chat and sees something that someone trusted you with? Now you are in violation of that person's trust? Not cool.
A boundary needs to be placed somewhere and if it isn't with your partner, then you need to remind your freinds from time to time that she reads your chats and they should compose themselves and filter as if she were in the room.
Me too.
If you’re already this unhappy, you won’t become magically happy unless he makes some massive changes. And he doesn’t sound capable or like he wants to make any changes, so are you going to wait around for a grown man to turn into the man you deserve, or will you respect and love yourself enough to know when you need to check out of a relationship?
Why does their opinion matter? Now that you will be a parent you need to do what is best for your child. Having these toxic people around and letting them have some rent free space in your head is not good. I personally wouldn’t let my kid be around a couple did xenophobes who hated my spouse and criticized the pregnancy that.
When we had our daughter I told my parents they were welcome to visit but they needed to leave their opinions and criticisms at the door. My dad threw a shit fit so I didn’t talk to him for 8 months. That’s 8 months he didn’t get to see his first grandchild because he couldn’t agree not to share his opinions. He learned his lesson.
He’s not interested in being a dad. That’s your answer.
I see. I am going to guess 'she dresses too sexy' or 'posts thirst traps' or whatever is what you are talking about, or she hugs friends and stuff.
And yes, I guess if you find that aspect of her disagreeable then that is not something easily changed.
Though it does go back to my original point: no, those aren't intrinsic to extroversion. Extroversion doesn't mean having a specific set of boundaries.