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Explain yourself. Explain what happened, what you were thinking and why you were thinking it.
My guess is: it sounds like she wanted to hook up with Greg (as if they had been doing it for a while and this was just another night). Much like you and her, people probably didn't know, and you were like “beat it Greg, she wants me in her bed tonight.” That set her into feeling embarrassed and disappointed. Unable to handle how this all blew up in her face, she made up a lie. She lied about the bus stop thing too to redirect her running away from you to get sympathy from you rather than questions. She lied to your friends to get sympathy rather than questions.
I think more people should have the mindset of 'if I catch something from this person, will this sexual encounter be worth it?' and stick to that answer.
Not shaming people who catch STIs at all, but they are hassles to deal with and come with unpleasant social stigma (which I don't agree with btw). It might change people's attitudes about very casual, borderline unsafe sex.
I'd say reschedule with them! Life happens
Guy made an update already! Its like we just skipped the several months wait for a BestOf post
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Explain yourself. Explain what happened, what you were thinking and why you were thinking it.
My guess is: it sounds like she wanted to hook up with Greg (as if they had been doing it for a while and this was just another night). Much like you and her, people probably didn't know, and you were like “beat it Greg, she wants me in her bed tonight.” That set her into feeling embarrassed and disappointed. Unable to handle how this all blew up in her face, she made up a lie. She lied about the bus stop thing too to redirect her running away from you to get sympathy from you rather than questions. She lied to your friends to get sympathy rather than questions.
I appreciate your honesty.
I think more people should have the mindset of 'if I catch something from this person, will this sexual encounter be worth it?' and stick to that answer.
Not shaming people who catch STIs at all, but they are hassles to deal with and come with unpleasant social stigma (which I don't agree with btw). It might change people's attitudes about very casual, borderline unsafe sex.
Oh nice then you prob know what I mean and I didn't need to explain haha, yeah the kind you put against your body 🙂