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Do NOT go after a guy in a relationship. Absolutely not. If you want a fuck buddy, find one who is also unattached and wants something casual. Frankly, your be coming off as a creepy older lady hitting a young guy up for an affair, and that's gross.
Kind of odd that she didn’t clear it with her family before inviting you. But I can appreciate why the family isn’t yet ready for you to be there for their morning PJ breakfast and such.
Don't ever allow someone to lay hands on you. That's not love. I am a product of child abuse at the hands of my mom, you gotta get those babies out of that house!
Hi, you are making the right decision, you are ultimately incompatible in something (she doesn’t want kids or she doesn’t them with you as hot as that is.) You deserve to be loved as is even on your way to being a better version of you. Thank you for still being there for her to support anyways.
You can love someone and support their decisions (ei the abortion) and still not want to be with them anymore which sounds like where you are at here.
Um your wife perceives your continued relationship with a woman who cheated on her husband as a threat to your marriage. The fact that you want to ignore your wife’s feeling for your cheating friend is very telling. I doubt your relationship will survive with your friend staying apart of your life. I don’t see a compromise that will include you having a friendship with this woman and staying married.
Don’t look for a relationship. Just meet people with no expectations. You’re probably overlooking red flags because you’re determined to get a relationship. Focus on you man!
This is a disaster on top of a mess, OP. Yes that's domestic violence, acting out and destroying property.
Why did he quit his job? I have to guess there's a lot of shame of some kind going on in the background. In any case, seriously not okay. Needs an intervention basically. Hopefully this can be walked back right away. Hoping he understands he crossed the line; and can look at how he wound up there. What's really going in?
This might not be the most thoughtful thing but when I was pregnant, my husband bought a humours book about pregnancy for men
I ended up reading it myself as most of the pregnancy books/midwife meetings/standard pregnancy shit is important but boring. This book made me laugh a few times but it also took the important steps and turned them into something sweet and funny
I wouldn't recommend you pursuing this even if he had a perfectly normal and stable relationship with his mother
I wouldn't say you're racist or xenophobic but I will say that you're culturally insensitive and a tad ignorant with that statement.
I know that view point is white/American centric but most cultures in the world, many children live! with their parents even into adulthood (Koreans, Filipinos, Indians and many many more).
I wouldn't shut it out just because you grew up in a different environment.
There are pros and cons to different lifestyles.
Saying all that, I also wouldn't on-line with my mom with my partner because I like privacy but it's my personal choice.
I'm sure you care for him deeply, which is why you're putting up with his crap. Good partners provide equal support and want to take care of one another, and don't just think about themselves and how they can benefit from a situation. Congratulations on your academic success. Focus on that and build healthy relationships. Find a man who's your equal and at a similar stage in life. Don't let him manipulate you if he acts like he's sorry. Keep yourself safe and tell your family and look into roommates. Don't let him take away your joy in this new stage of life, and look forward only.
It sounds like you did everything you could. He has become codependent on you while you are still independent and trying to move forward in life. At the end of the day, you are ultimately not responsible for what he chooses to do with his mental health and life. You can't force a person to change, you can only support them if they decide to make the choice to change.
I'd say have a conversation with him about how if he doesn't want to change, then you're forced to leave this life because this is a life you did not sign up for or ever wanted and it's not fair for you to be sucked into this void him and his parents have created. You're still young! The last thing you want is to regret it decades later wondering if you could have done more with your life without these heavy limitations.
Do NOT go after a guy in a relationship. Absolutely not. If you want a fuck buddy, find one who is also unattached and wants something casual. Frankly, your be coming off as a creepy older lady hitting a young guy up for an affair, and that's gross.
Kind of odd that she didn’t clear it with her family before inviting you. But I can appreciate why the family isn’t yet ready for you to be there for their morning PJ breakfast and such.
Don't ever allow someone to lay hands on you. That's not love. I am a product of child abuse at the hands of my mom, you gotta get those babies out of that house!
Hi, you are making the right decision, you are ultimately incompatible in something (she doesn’t want kids or she doesn’t them with you as hot as that is.) You deserve to be loved as is even on your way to being a better version of you. Thank you for still being there for her to support anyways.
You can love someone and support their decisions (ei the abortion) and still not want to be with them anymore which sounds like where you are at here.
This is the sequel for the other Reddit post where the husband, and his dad planned on killing the wife after she had her baby.
You're mixing and blending a lot. So, what is it you are ashamed of that you consider to breake up?
Um your wife perceives your continued relationship with a woman who cheated on her husband as a threat to your marriage. The fact that you want to ignore your wife’s feeling for your cheating friend is very telling. I doubt your relationship will survive with your friend staying apart of your life. I don’t see a compromise that will include you having a friendship with this woman and staying married.
Thank you.
So. What did your mom do/say that youre oh so conveniently leaving out of this little tale?
Don’t look for a relationship. Just meet people with no expectations. You’re probably overlooking red flags because you’re determined to get a relationship. Focus on you man!
He will magically be reachable for the right woman. Who, sorry to say, isn't you. What should you do? Take time away and lose the erotomania.
No.
This is a disaster on top of a mess, OP. Yes that's domestic violence, acting out and destroying property.
Why did he quit his job? I have to guess there's a lot of shame of some kind going on in the background. In any case, seriously not okay. Needs an intervention basically. Hopefully this can be walked back right away. Hoping he understands he crossed the line; and can look at how he wound up there. What's really going in?
This might not be the most thoughtful thing but when I was pregnant, my husband bought a humours book about pregnancy for men
I ended up reading it myself as most of the pregnancy books/midwife meetings/standard pregnancy shit is important but boring. This book made me laugh a few times but it also took the important steps and turned them into something sweet and funny
I wouldn't recommend you pursuing this even if he had a perfectly normal and stable relationship with his mother
I wouldn't say you're racist or xenophobic but I will say that you're culturally insensitive and a tad ignorant with that statement.
I know that view point is white/American centric but most cultures in the world, many children live! with their parents even into adulthood (Koreans, Filipinos, Indians and many many more).
I wouldn't shut it out just because you grew up in a different environment.
There are pros and cons to different lifestyles.
Saying all that, I also wouldn't on-line with my mom with my partner because I like privacy but it's my personal choice.
I'm sure you care for him deeply, which is why you're putting up with his crap. Good partners provide equal support and want to take care of one another, and don't just think about themselves and how they can benefit from a situation. Congratulations on your academic success. Focus on that and build healthy relationships. Find a man who's your equal and at a similar stage in life. Don't let him manipulate you if he acts like he's sorry. Keep yourself safe and tell your family and look into roommates. Don't let him take away your joy in this new stage of life, and look forward only.
It sounds like you did everything you could. He has become codependent on you while you are still independent and trying to move forward in life. At the end of the day, you are ultimately not responsible for what he chooses to do with his mental health and life. You can't force a person to change, you can only support them if they decide to make the choice to change.
I'd say have a conversation with him about how if he doesn't want to change, then you're forced to leave this life because this is a life you did not sign up for or ever wanted and it's not fair for you to be sucked into this void him and his parents have created. You're still young! The last thing you want is to regret it decades later wondering if you could have done more with your life without these heavy limitations.