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I certainly agree with all the other comments that your weight is not only healthy for your height but is in the range of being optimally healthy for your height: that is, it doesn't make any sense for you to gain or lose weight for health-related reasons.
The most charitable interpretation I can give for your boyfriend's remarks is that he indeed did not mention your weight, and that he means something different when he says you could be healthier if you went to the gym and did the kinds of workouts he wants. There are social and cultural aspects of going to the gym — or rather, of different kinds of gym regimens. I have a close friend who is really into crossfit: several times a week, she posts videos of her workouts on social media. I would never want to do the stuff I see in those videos: to me it looks demanding and painful (and she does injure herself sometimes). But she is part of a community of people who like that, and they encourage each other. [I should also say that her boyfriend doesn't go to the gym at all, and that is perfectly fine with her.] When I tell my girlfriend that I need to go to the gym more regularly because I feel more energetic when I do, she tells me that going to to the gym only makes her feel tired. It is no big deal, but it is a minor cultural disconnect.
It could be that your boyfriend is really starting to jump on the bandwagon of a certain kind of fitness culture, where people take pride in recording their progress and there is a lot of talk of “gains.” (Ironically, I have that mentality more when it comes to other aspects of personal development than the purely physical, but it helps me understand their point of view.) So he may be imagining himself taking on fitness as a major interest in his life, so he wants you to take on that interest as well. That last part is, I think, where he is mistaken: as I mentioned above, different approaches to health and fitness within a relationship need not be dealbreaker.
But it is possible that you are interpreting his remarks as dissatisfaction with you physically when that is not really the case. I think you can find out by just holding firm with your own approach to health and fitness and seeing how things pan out between you. This one conversation doesn't necessarily have to be a continuing point of contention between you.
We hang out with our other friends but that's the only time we hand out together, we dont just hang out alone unless we're having relations but we do text about how is everyone doing and are you okay conversations. Yet again I'm the one initiating the text. Like we can text all day but I have to start it.
There’s always a choice to walk or run away. Your husband decided to try to save face by continuing what could have just been a verbal alter location and shocker, it didn’t work out in his favor.
Relationships take work, more work sometimes than during the initial dating steps. Make sure to communicate your love language and what you want which it sounds as you have. Couples therapy can help with this communication if needed, as well as exercises that can help with his inability to match your love language.
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Girl I’m sorry. I’ve been here and it sucks.
No advice other than he might have gone dark for your protection.
The person he was in the last relationship with… are they also missing as well?
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Advice:
Get therapy to deal with your homophobia and sexism.
Proposing a significant change in the relationship dynamics makes you no longer feel she is dedicated (committed) to the current monogamous dynamic.
It makes you doubt instead of trust and it hurts your perspective of her as a partner.
He does that to manipulate you and you fall for it every time.
Also stop hanging out at peoples place of business going forward you need to have things you do outside of boys.
And obviously block this creep and ghost him on every platform.
I’ve had plenty of disagreements. I haven’t signed a binding legal document with someone I was dating for under a year
Some people share food some people don’t. Not everyone feels about food as you do.
I do NOT share. My husband does.
I only share food with my children. 18 months and 4 years. And sometimes I get annoyed that the 4 year old has to sample my food. Especially when I know it’s something she will spit out. I tolerate it because they are my kids and I want them to eat.
My husband I would fuss about it A-LOT. Sometimes he does sample my food and I get annoyed but he knows I don’t share food.
If he takes it I get mad, if he asks sometimes I share.
Point is you don’t eat other people’s food unless you ask.
You were wrong in the case and can not get annoyed for him complaining about it.
I don’t know about his other issue – but in this instance your were wrong and instead of apologizing properly you gaslight him and called him names
No he hasn't improved, he's just managed to control you so that he isn't subjected to the same behaviour and doesn't need to get angry.
Not that I'm recommending that you start being late again, it's good if you find ways to not be late, but it shouldn't be out of fear that he punches a hole in the wall.
Also every time we have chatted since the debacle, she has just kept getting mad at me and being like “how could you do that” and “I don’t know if I can be with someone that does something like that” which is very valid. I’ve waited for years for a chance with her and finally have it.
OK what? Why are you even dating anyone? You don't want holidays with your girlfriend/wife, what the hell.
You sound entitled and immature, try compromise? Hugh red flag, she needs to toss you back.
I can understand the hurt about them lying just so they can exclude you. That completely sucks especially after you suggested getting there early to hang out together. I think it’s pretty immature of them given that they’re the older siblings too.
I’m one of 3 siblings and once upon a time I was closer to my middle sibling and we both weren’t very close to our oldest. But now they are closer and I’m the one kind of left out of stuff unless it’s a family occasion. Yea it sucks, but at the same time I can’t govern their relationship and it seems like they want me to put in an extra mile of effort to get closer to them which I don’t feel like doing either so I’ve just accepted it and I have my own life outside of them. At some point, you have to mentally stop fighting this cause it is what it is, they clearly have more similar personalities than you do to either of them.
Your husband is not a 'good man', he's a petty criminal. If he hasn't grown out of it, then I doubt he ever will. And you are enabling him by staying and putting up with it.
Question. Why do you put up with utter bullshit? Can she physically not work? Like what in the fuck.
Choose the dog you made a comment to the dog first , you can find a more suitable bf
You didn’t answer the question of how much weight he has gained? It is a helpful and necessary detail
Tell him to dance right out of your life!
Thanks for your advice. I won't have a student debt I online in France here college is almost ''free''
You don't have to be the bigger person. You just need a healthy coparenting relationship for your son's sake and you don't have to be married for that. It'd be worse for you to force yourself to stay and have a bad relationship with each other.
There's also nothing saying he will stop. So you had to confront him for him to say “I'll get help”? He had 7 years (or more if he was doing this before you met) to realize how unhealthy his behavior is and that it is cheating; yet, he didn't give a shit.
So asking your partner to be there for you when you’re grieving is too much to ask for now? What the hell is even the point of relationships at this point?
And who said anything about going for dinner while grieving? She expected her partner to grab her a bite or rather care about her wellbeing while she’s grieving. Did you even read the post?
That's the addiction. That's you. Not the porn. Millions of people have no problem with it. Same as alcohol. The problem is the person. And nowhere does she say he has an addiction.
Religion and Santa are not the same,
What you wrote first, sounds like you were totally against it. Now reading what you just wrote makes better sense. You both need to communicate better. What if he wants to promote Santa to the children and you don't, is that going to be an issue?
These are things people need to totally talk about, most people do not communicate in a relationship. Even though this topic is not the norm, its a good starting point to talk about the future and what it holds.
I left home on my own at around 21 out of choice – before that I was away at uni 6 hours away from my folks.
It sounds like you do lack some basic life skills but the good news is they're not hard to learn.
The hardest one you'll need is to develop resilience. Things aren't going to work out first time 9 times out of ten. Sometimes they don't work out the twentieth time. But you've got to persevere.
If you don't know how to do things, then why not ask your folks to explain things to you rather than just do them for you?
Or, the next time she criticizes your lack of skills, don't get defensive or annoyed, simply say “You're right, I haven't got a clue about any of this, but I want to get better at it so we can work towards our life together. Can you explain how it works?”
Then pay attention and actually do the steps yourself.
Put on your big boy pants and get ahold of some adulting. At 26 you should have a bit more knowledge of the real world so get cracking.
Jfc way to bite the woman's head off when she's asking for help
end it. She has zero respect for an you, and every Ukrainian citizen.
If he's an abusive cheater that you shouldn't marry then why are you trying to marry him?
If he's not an abusive cheater then why would you post his picture to a group designed to inform women about abusive cheaters?
Good on him for walking away from the crazy and having self-respect.
You posting him on there speaks enough volumes on what you think of his character even if there might even be a basis for it as it clearly seems there isn't in your comments. Stop trying to justify it, it is absolutely mental to post someone you're supposedly gonna marry there.
If anyone should post anyone in any FB groups about people you should stay away from it's him about you. ” Stay away from this nutjob”
It’s time to separate the bank accounts until your fiancé shows you can trust him again.
Uhm those of us that don't have herpes think it's a pretty big deal actually.
Definitely my husband
Sounds like your husband doesn't want to be married anymore maybe?
That is absolutely sickening. Tell him If he doesn’t want to eat it, then to put it in Tupperware containers or something to give to a homeless shelter. Full stop. There is no excuse and no justification to just throw food in the garbage for Instagram likes when there are people, probably in the very city yall online in, who don’t have enough to eat. Your boyfriend really ought to be ashamed.
You think throwing a Lobster in the trash is fine,
but me thinking its terrible, that's the crack pot idea?
Thankfully it looks like more people agree with me then you.
Throwing a lobster in the trash after you cook it is 100% not ok.
If someone did this we are no longer friends,
Hunting for food, that's totally fine.
Hunting for sport, letting all the animals rot in the bush, that's evil.
sound familiar?
Maybe its your personal morality that is out of wack with the people around you, based on how many downvotes you are getting Reddit agrees.
Chill out, get compassion, save a spider, dance in the rain.
Pre-nups do not override the law. You haven't worked in 15 years and have no ability to support yourself now that he is leaving, so the court will force him to give you money so you don't end up homeless and destitute.
You need to talk to a lawyer when you get back. Look around and see if anyone will agree to be paid after you get your cut of the money from the divorce (I'm not fully sure how that part works, sorry), then proceed with your lawyers advice.
Also, start looking for work
Now I’m going to break in here to give you a bit of context to my career plans so you can understand the full scope. I am currently in sales and as the introduction implies quite successful at it, but my true ambitions are to lead a sales team and move up the leadership ladder.
The bots here are really getting very creative.
Yes definitely before. It’s good they know you it will make the conversation much easier. Just tell them how you feel about each other and want their inputs. Hoping for the best for you two.
I find it so bizarre that your mom is obsessed with your relationship with your ex and your ex-friend?
You have to make a decision soon, past 35 and especially in the 40s. A pregnancy is extremely dangerous for her and comes with increased genetic defects for the baby…
This lady should have no place in OP or her husband's life! She needs to be blocked and deleted! OP needs time to figure out her next steps, i.e work on her marriage or not.