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  1. I'm glad I'm not the only one who looked at the post history. 9 days ago “he wants to work on himself.” Today: missing condoms. He's not working on himself . . .

  2. Hey OP. I hope that even if he begrudging agrees to marry you, you should leave anyway. It seems like he’s treating you like an incubator. You’re smart to want to make it legal but if this guy isn’t saying hell yes to providing safety and security to you and your baby then get out of there.

    The age gap is really concerning. I’m 33 and I would NEVER date a 23 year old. The life experience is too different. You can’t have a lot in common. When I was a younger woman, around your age when you two met…the only older guys who were attracted to me were the ones who wanted to control me or manipulate me.

    I hope you run away! And also you’re a bad ass for putting your foot down. Not a lot of 20 year olds would be that brave.

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  5. If you're worried about “fighting fair” with your husband, you, my love, are in an emotionally/mentally/verbally (possibly all of the above tbh) abusive relationship and should gtfo before it becomes physically abusive.

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  7. Return the xmas gift. Do not get him a bday gift and don't celebrate with him. And you can NOT be friends with him. He wont allow it to be that simple

    He is actually a fool for staying with you since you keep giving him all the signals of not wanting him

  8. Okay, so don't grasp that. It's fine. That's something that will hit you like a ton of bricks at some point in your future though, I can promise you that. 3 years from now you'll be 24, you'll meet a friend's 13 year old brother and it will all become clear to you then.

    But I think that you can grasp how unhappy you are. You've said repeatedly that he is more like a parental figure to you now and how unsettling and … gross … that is. You know you don't want kids right now. Maybe ever, but absolutely positively definitely not right now. But he is doing everything he can to pressure you into having kids now. That is so incredibly wrong. He is showing that he doesn't care about your wellbeing if he is so hell-bent on forcing you to do something so fucking huge and monumentally life-changing when you've made it clear you don't want to. He wants to trap you. You will be stuck with him – in one way or another – for the rest of your life if you have a kid with him. You will never be free of him. He knows that. And he knows how much harder it will be for you to leave him if you have a kid or two hanging from your skirts. That is why he is pushing sooooo naked for it now. He senses you are breaking away from him. Going to your mom's for Christmas without him, not grovelling when you broke up, going away for your apprenticeship. He needs to find a way to trap you good and nude and what better way then tying you down with kids you can't afford to raise on your own? And once you're trapped, by making it clear he will make your life a living hell as a co-parent.

    All everyone here wants for you is to not trap yourself. Yes, it would be great if you had an epiphany and realized he is 100% the scumbag we all know he is (Hon, you were 16 and he – at 24 – was telling you he knew he wanted to marry you?? You were a fucking child and he was a fucking adult). But if you aren't ready for the light just yet, that's okay but please, please do not bury yourself any further than you already are. Take every extra precaution you can with your birth control and don't leave it anywhere that he would have access to it. If it looks tampered with in anyway get it replace immediately. Just don't have sex with him at all if you can manage that. Do not make any major changes with him or for him until you have some therapy sessions under your belt and have been able to have frank and honest discussion with friends about your situation. I would suggest reaching out to friends you had when you were, say 13 – 18 years old and see what they have to say about what they witnessed when he first came into your life. Start getting some perspectives and opinions that aren't his or the ones he trained you to have.

  9. Guy here, I don’t even think you did anything egregious but to avoid it just tell your bf when your ex contacts you and wants to meet up. My ex had former bfs contacting her sometimes and she never hid it and usually would casually bring it up and it was no big deal. I didn’t even ask for that but it was nice she was being transparent. As far as right now, just let him cool off, he will be fine and might even realize he overreacted but now he’s committed to being “angry”.

  10. Oh lol, ok.

    You’re right, I did assume that a reasonable person would look at her reaction and think she’s being a brat. My bad. I’ll leave space for those who think acting the way she did is reasonable (for those who do think it’s reasonable, probably shouldn’t be handing out advice).

  11. right, men totally aren't out here mass murdering weekly, doing the majority of raping kids, raping women, raping other men, kidnapping, arson, miscellaneous murder, hate crimes, physical abuse, manipulation, financial abuse, the statistics were made up by the evil feminists that want women to be treated like humans ????????

  12. Yeah anyone who talks about “needing to find themselves” is an immature jackass who I wouldn’t want to associate with. If I was in this guy’s position and my wife said she needed to travel for an undefined period of time to find herself and maybe not return, I’d make sure the paperwork was filled out so she can continue enjoying her single life upon her return.

  13. Charlie is a grown woman, she is married, she has a child. She did this freely as an adult. She has committments and a higher calling than running off to Europe. Who, intellectual.honesty here please, believes that it will take more than 48 hours before she “discovers” herself with a French penis.in her? She as much as told him. This is some kind of delayed adolescence thatbhas infected modern society.

    I want to be a bride, I want to have children but being a wife and a mother that's no fun.

    OP, tell your wife to decide what is important to her. If she goes, she should have another place to live, assuming she ever comes back.

  14. Agreed. Retaliation is possible, who knows how close she is with her father and how much he might be able to manipulate her.

  15. Tell her exactly those words and tell her you're sorry you didn't do full disclosure and she has a right to her feelings and you'll be there to hear them if she wants to talk. But that you are not a bad person and character attacks (“perv” etc) ren't helpful.

  16. What makes us fundamentally incompatible if our only incompatibility is my nervousness at having children? I do want them I’m just nervous

  17. I think you could greatly benefit from therapy. You have deeper issues from childhood experiences that distort your view of men in general when not all men are the same. You sound like you have a great catch and you are self aware of your insecurities, to be fair to your relationship and yourself therapy can dig deep into those beliefs and how you can change your outlook. You need to learn self love and acceptance. You sound like a wonderful person, don't give these beliefs so much power that it's robbing you of your joy.

  18. Love the reddit/internet these days, if a man doesn't want his girlfriend to cheat then he's “controlling and insecure” 😀 This name calling is textbook manipulation btw 😀

  19. Never send nudes because when you break up he’ll get mad and post them live. Or threaten to post them to keep you from breaking up.

  20. Lol, who said either one of us felt bad? I went shopping and had a nice afternoon Why would I feel bad for someone else's choices? Her choice to be late had absolutely nothing to do with me. As a result of this, and because other people got tired of her behavior and did similar, she looked at her behavior and found out she had adhd. She thanked me when she was diagnosed and was never late for anything again.

    I suppose it's an ultimatum to the other person, but how they look at how I live my life and expect to be treated is none of my business. I do me.

  21. So he started this relationship by slapping you in the face with multiple red flags, and you chose to stay anyway? You don't really get to be surprised he's acted exactly as anyone with eyes and a brain could have told you he would.

    Please do dig up your bar from whatever trench you've buried it in and raise it a bit.

  22. I don’t remember if I was blocking the camera or we were just roughhousing. His first reaction was defense, but he did become apologetic when i haven’t dropped it (for like 3 days now). He didn’t clearly explain his remorse though, just simple apologies.

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