i'm sorry to say it's more like she obviously didn't want you to meet this woman at all but she didn't want to be “that chick” and be like no honey you can't go….that's what i meant by overstepping. she clearly has a nude time setting boundaries although it seems you are giving her a chance for communication.
And that’s very fair! Maybe just express to your husband that you don’t feel okay with this, and he might know how to more gently bring it up with grandma. I don’t think there was any malicious intent, so hopefully once she knows it’s something you’re not okay with it won’t be an issue again
The fact that you were made out to be the “crazy Latina” (I would probably be labeled as one too) for the whole situation is straight up gaslighting. I would never show my friends S/O anything sexual like that.
I've been a military spouse for 25yrs and both my boys are full time military. One is in an elite special ops unit and none have hours like this unless there is something major going on. I think you're being decieved here.
Ouch, that sucks, I’m sorry. I definitely see that as a rejection—since he seemed into you, though, maybe he wanted to be FWBs. Depending on your feelings towards that, that could be a good or a bad thing. Either way, I’d talk to your friends about it! I highly doubt that they’ll cringe or judge you and it’ll feel good to get it out.
thank you! a few people reccomended Celexa from personal expeirience, do i will ask my doctor about both.
i'm sorry to say it's more like she obviously didn't want you to meet this woman at all but she didn't want to be “that chick” and be like no honey you can't go….that's what i meant by overstepping. she clearly has a nude time setting boundaries although it seems you are giving her a chance for communication.
Ah yes I forgot that women are the ones ruining relationships because why wouldnt she, not like he had anything to do with it or whatever
This is my advice for her, you can tell her yours and go on with your life
And that’s very fair! Maybe just express to your husband that you don’t feel okay with this, and he might know how to more gently bring it up with grandma. I don’t think there was any malicious intent, so hopefully once she knows it’s something you’re not okay with it won’t be an issue again
She isn’t your friend.
The fact that you were made out to be the “crazy Latina” (I would probably be labeled as one too) for the whole situation is straight up gaslighting. I would never show my friends S/O anything sexual like that.
You’re so evasive so it sounds like you definitely cheated and know for sure the kid isn’t your husband’s. Good luck with the divorce. You’ll need it.
She needs to be checked out!! She could be having some type of mental health issue, or something.
Couples therapy for sure!
She's Exhibit A as to why an open phone policy is the healthiest arrangement in a committed relationship.
Most men have asymptomatic chlamydia. I went to medical school so I need more than google…
it’s not your job to handle her emotions, also it’s fucked up she be snooping
What he did wasn't normal, breath play is varsity level kink and you might want to consider filing a report if not pressing charges.
Thank you for the that, I’ve never thought of it that way we’ve been having issues and it’s made me second guess things
I've been a military spouse for 25yrs and both my boys are full time military. One is in an elite special ops unit and none have hours like this unless there is something major going on. I think you're being decieved here.
Ouch, that sucks, I’m sorry. I definitely see that as a rejection—since he seemed into you, though, maybe he wanted to be FWBs. Depending on your feelings towards that, that could be a good or a bad thing. Either way, I’d talk to your friends about it! I highly doubt that they’ll cringe or judge you and it’ll feel good to get it out.
Offered up every damn solution but the one you should have.
yup I agree with you ,that’s really not asking to much .very normal expectation