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  1. I wouldn't mind, I don't have one. Ambition, critical thinking skills, and motivation matter a lot more – but those things do tend to be correlated with having a degree or at least working to better yourself.

  2. I would personally end things with him.

    He’s made it clear that you’re not his priority. He values this girl more than you.

    Fuck that. Especially after 7.5 years. He cheated. Whether he admits it or not. At the very least emotional. But honestly, no one ends a 7.5 year relationship without taking a test drive first.

    Fuck a “break”. I’d tell him good luck with your new girl. Don’t ever contact me again. Have a great life.

    I don’t want someone who wants someone else. And is willing to throw away such a substantial relationship.

  3. Just keep going to therapy. That’s really all you can do. If you’ve been seeing the same therapist for a while, maybe it’s time to change it up.

  4. I have little doubt that she really thinks everyone else is the problem, even outside of the context of getting defensive when I bring it up.

    You hit the nail on the head that all the work needs to start from a shared understanding of reality, and we have not yet been able to get there.

  5. If she wanted to be a surrogate mom for you she should’ve ask you before getting pregnant. Just because her friends parents help them doesn’t make it a rule.

    You have one life and you already sacrificed enough to raise them. You’re not just a mom; you’re a human who has her own needs. She ignores your needs and put her needs first. She just want you to become a caregiver while she’s living her life the way she wants. Honestly, if I were her mom, that would change my relationship with her.

  6. This dude is 25. Is his unemployment temporary, or has he never worked a day in his life?

    What are his future goals? Do they align with yours?

  7. We are all like that when it’s happening to us. I think that’s why people come to Reddit because it’s very hot for us to see because we read it through the filters of what I want what I hope for. I wish you the best.

  8. Try radical compassion. Ask yourself if MIL might have trauma that deserves support and caring from her relatives.

    It’s a very hot thing to reconcile, but you’ve heard the saying hurt people hurt other people? The hurt they do isn’t excused, but their hurt also needs healing.

  9. Just leave, why confront them , you literally already challenged their view and they doubled down on it jus move on you will be beating a dead horse if you decide to confront them

  10. This is EXACTLY what I think. I know someone just like that. Babysitter or family member period! It’s his choice.

  11. Man, people are being real shit to you here. A lot of people believe in a “just world” fallacy where good people deserve and do get good things, so in reverse if you're having a bad time then you must be deserving it somehow- which isn't true, sometimes you just have bad luck.

    From the comments you seem like on a conscious level you're doing the right things- not taking it out in your gf, you know it's not her fault things aren't going quite as good for you, and working on remedying your own situation to the extent that you're able to control. But that doesn't stop it from emotionally being rough, which is totally valid imo. Do you maybe have someone other than your gf to vent to about this? Or maybe try journaling? That way you can maybe try getting the bad feelings out of you, get a little outside support, and then hopefully you can turn back to your girlfriend with renewed happiness for her.

  12. Nah fuck this guy. This is how he handles conflict. He’ll do this again if you let him back in your life

  13. Two things: -You never really know someone until you live! with them. Now you know.

    -You’re in an abusive relationship and it will not get better.

    Can you move in with friends or family for the time being? Even a shelter. You’re not safe with her. I would be nervous about increasing domestic violence from her.

    She’s shown you who she is. Now believe her.

  14. But now he is bringing it up, it's giving me an anxiety about trying it. I'm afraid that after it happens I will feel disgusted with him.

    Trust your instincts. it sounds like this is something he wants and something you're willing to endure. That is not how experimentation in the bedroom is supposed to work. if you're anything short of enthusiastic about this then don't do it.

  15. At least your username is 100% on point. You seem like an absolutely horrible person. I truly feel bad for anyone that has to endure you in real life. But I'm not gonna waste any more.time.or energy on someone like you

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